I was reminded this morning that I had not provided details on some important changes in my life…sorry!
Aimee and I both have really busy lives. She has her job, her private practice on the side, and she’s active in church. I work full time plus some, go to school full time, and do a few other things on the side as well. Needless to say, dating was an adventure, trying to find time to spend together. We thought that once we were married, things would slow down, and life would become more manageable.
Boy howdy, were we wrong.
For some reason, when we married, it seemed like the spotlight was turned on a lot of things that we were putting on the back burner…things that we would not be able to continue to ignore. As we talked and prayed together about the choices we had, it became clear that changes need to be made.
The only change that seems to make sense is for me to quit my full-time job. Being a red-blooded male, I scoffed at the idea of not being a provider for my family. However, after talking and praying some more, this is the best way for me to get school done, so I can get a better job…thereby being a better provider.
So, notice has been provided to my employer. On October 1, my roles will be: full-time student, business manager for Aimee’s practice, and house husband. This will add some flexibility, but I’m still going to be pretty busy for a while.
- Apply for financial aid for the remainder of my classes
- 15 page paper
- Math exam
- Submit info to college to bypass several core classes
- Learn medical billing
- Get set up on multiple insurers websites
- Create forms needed for the practice
- Miscellaneous projects around the house that have been ignored because of time constraints
And I’m sure there’s more to that list…but that’s the start. We are fortunate; after working a household budget with a few extras, we will be able to survive on what she’s making for the time being…and once insurance billings start rolling in, we’ll be doing good enough until I graduate.
I am truly blessed. Not because m’girl is being my “sugar momma” and allowing me to finish school…but because we are able to figure out life’s problems together as equal partners…and come up with solutions that make sense.
I am also blessed because of my friends, both online and offline, that have supported me in my life and the events that have happened. Thanks for your support…and I’m looking forward to this new chapter in my life.
Blessings to both of you as you move forward together! I'm excited about your new chapter.
Fabulous! Good for you and Aimee.
You are both blessed to be able to lean on each other and share the challenges of life together. I know it's hard to come to terms with the fact that you have too much on your plate….especially when all of it is good stuff. Making the decision about what has to go is not easy. I am glad for you that you found a way to lessen your load and still make it all work. The little bit of pruning you did now will bring bigger growth later! Bless you both!!!!
The Lord will provide! I am happy for the two of you and how God is not only in your lives but through you!
Continue to follow and he will lead you to where you need to be !
Roy
Sounds like a plan! Maybe when I come out the next time you too can manage a day or two off to visit.
It has been fun to watch your relationship grow. You two have become one and I commend you for doing what you feel is best for your lives and for your marriage.
I'm glad to have you as friends. Great people + great examples = You ROCK!
I am a supervisor of a group of collectors.. I am also a collector for 34 nephrologists. If you need anything at all to help set you up please let me know. I'd be more then happy to help. I'm so happy for you.