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The passing of the healthcare reform bill over the weekend seems to have re-ignited the polarization of American politics. From where I sit, people seem to be divided into two camps:

  • This is great! We all need healthcare…and now, no American will ever go without again!
  • Obama is a socialist, and we don’t need him telling us how to get our healthcare!

I have to confess that I do not know the first thing about the bill because I have not had the time to research. Bills have become way too long to read through hundreds of pages. If I accept someone else’s summarization of the bill, I usually have to accept their bias, too.

I am ready to start having honest conversations about politics and issues without the usual party lines about crap. I do not want to hear about President Obama’s birth certificate, Chicago politics connections, or anything with the words “socialism” or “Hitler.” The same can be said about right-wing hatred based on religious connections, George W. Bush, and contradictory stances.

I believe government works best when it takes a minimal role in our lives. I believe when we look to the government to regulate or provide us with services, the cost often outweighs the benefit. That being said, there are some services that need government direction like the military.

I am anxious to see the effect HCR has on individuals, businesses, and government. Governor Jan Brewer has already complained that HCR will cost the Arizona state government $1 billion per year but has not defined how.

Talk to me, folks. Tell me where real discussions on issues are taking place. Because I am sick and tired of business as usual in the world of politics.

It’s been a few days since all the fuss surrounding Falcon Heene. Balloon Boy.

I have to admit; since I’m no longer working full-time, and instead doing schoolwork and business stuff from home, I tuned to the major news stations when Twitter was all abuzz with the balloon floating over Denver that contained a 6 year old boy.

It held my interest for about 20 minutes or so as they talked about all the possibilities. Should we bring it down with a net? Oh, don’t get helicopters too close! Then, they started interviewing everyone who had anything to do with hot-air ballooning. I felt left out. I mean, I’ve seen a lot of hot-air balloons! Why wasn’t someone calling me for MY opinion?

But after a while, I got sick of it and turned it off. I believe I turned TweetDeck off for a while too, because I just didn’t want to hear about it anymore. Plus, I suppose I had work to do. Predictably, mom and dad did all the morning talk shows, and Falcon even barfed on two of them. Precious.

Then we find out it was a scam, and everyone is aghast. We were duped!

My question for everyone: why are we sucked into this stuff?

Let me rephrase that. Why do we feel the need to follow these stories for hours, and then tune in to the morning shows to see them again?

Yes, the thought of a 6 year old floating thousands of feet over the earth is intriguing enough to turn on the TV and find out what happened. However, the news stations stay on these stories for hours because we’re watching them, folks. To blame CNN, MSNBC, FOX, and everyone else is ridiculous. If we don’t like what they’re showing, we have to be adult enough to reach for the remote and turn the channel.

When we hear the saying “everything in moderation”, it’s not just alcohol they’re talking about.

Holy. Cow. She KILLED it!!!

I told a friend that I would be posting about people expressing their opinions during this presidential election…because, I guess, I’ve been getting fed up with some of the comments I’ve heard about the candidates.

However, I saw this article in the East Valley Tribune, and it kind of stirred something up in me.

The article talks about how care for the mentally ill in Maricopa county has deteriorated. About a year ago, Magellan was awarded the contract by Maricopa county to care for those people suffering from a mental illness, replacing the previous provider, Value Options. Because of my ex-wife, I had a lot of experience with Value Options, but I have no experience (or opinion) about Magellan. But it sure sounds like little has changed. Overwhelmed case managers and doctors, lack of treatment and followup still seems to be the status quo. I wish I had an answer for this, because lack of care for SMI individuals is absolutely unacceptable.

But the author of this piece also briefly touches on what I perceive to be a bigger issue: the rights of mentally ill patients versus society at large. Two cases mentioned involved patients who had either assaulted or murdered innocent victims shortly after receiving care and assessment. This is such a tough subject to tackle. People should not lose their basic civil rights based solely on the fact that they have a mental illness; but the question could also be posed about society’s safety.

My ex-wife has borderline personality disorder. This psychiatric illness often results in cutting and suicide attempts. I’ve seen research that claims a mortality rate as high as 10%, meaning that as many as 1 out of 10 people with BPD are successful in their suicide attempt.

As a spouse, here’s some of the fun I got to deal with: assault (I still have physical scars), emotional blackmail and manipulation, loss of friends, battles with healthcare providers to get proper care and medication, many calls to 911, and a constant vigilance to keep her from killing herself. Now, if you know me, I’m definitely not the smallest guy out there, and while I won’t be enrolling myself in any boxing matches, I think I can handle myself under normal circumstances. But the ex turned out to be a challenge I should have never signed up for. I remember one time that she attacked me so fiercely that I had to bend her arm behind her back and smother her face into the bed until the cops got there. At that point, I was prepared to go to jail because I just didn’t care; I had to do what I needed to do to protect myself. Fortunately, the police had been there enough to know that I wasn’t the one assaulting her. In fact, because of the path of destruction she left in the house, they told HER that SHE was the one in danger of being arrested for domestic violence.

The interaction we had with mental health providers, and the system that was established to balance her rights with everyone else’s, was often a real source of frustration. The worst times came when she was in crisis mode, threatening to hurt herself or others. Under Arizona law, this is defined as danger to self (DTS) or danger to others (DTO). I can recall multiple times when she would tell a police officer that she wanted to kill herself or others. When an officer hears that, they have no choice but to ensure that the consumer gets help. If she refused to go for help voluntarily, she was literally handcuffed and transported to what is more or less an emergency room for DTS/DTO individuals.

More than once she was taken to this center, only to be released several hours later. The last incident I experienced involved her swallowing a bottle of meds, producing a reaction that made her heart stop twice in the ambulance on the way to the hospital. She spent 3 days in ICU getting rid of the drugs in her system…and after that was transferred to a psychiatric center for evaluation. It took them 6 hours to come to the conclusion that she was no longer DTS/DTO, and needed to go home. I got the phone call at 2:00am to come get her. How can anyone really say that someone is no longer a danger to themselves less than 4 days after swallowing a bottle of pills?

The reason for letting you into this piece of my life is this: while I know that anyone suffering with a mental illness is in an extremely difficult situation, I also know all too well that the suffering extends into everyone else surrounding that person. That means family, friends, coworkers, and for that matter, anyone that crosses that person’s path.

The battle to balance the rights of the mentally ill with the rights of society in general is a fragile balance. It used to be that consumers (one term used for mentally ill individuals) were institutionalized for life, a practice that was used as recently as the mid-1970s. Most people would agree that approach is wrong for many reasons. But what’s the balance? How do we prevent someone from walking out of their psychiatrist’s office and assaulting someone less than 4 hours later?

The answer is not to blame Magellan, Value Options, or whatever mental health provider happens to be at the helm. While I personally believe that they share some responsibility for the welfare of consumers, the real problem is that the laws do not seem to strike that balance between consumers and society. I don’t have the solid gold answer, and I haven’t met anyone else that does. But instead at pointing fingers at providers, someone needs to take a good, hard look at the legal balance of rights between these two groups…and determine what changes are needed.

It’s broke. Let’s fix it.

This video, taken off of Rush Limbaugh’s site, was too moving for me NOT to post. The video features Army Specialist Joe Cook, a veteran of our occupation in Iraq. Enjoy.

Nope, not referring to the Dunkin Donuts in Tempe…according to the sign, that store will open in 2 weeks. However, the CVS Pharmacy on Mill and University in downtown Tempe IS open! Nice to have another daily shopping option within walking distance of work and home.

BONUS: As an additional benefit to reading this brief, very trivial post, I am rewarding you with a squirrel…putting a coconut on his head. You are welcome.

Bubba sez y’all gotta check this out! An 85 year old great-grandmother woke up last night to find a 17 year old burglar in the house. Too bad the poor kid didn’t know that this granny was packing heat. Pointing the gun at him, she made him go to the living room, and then made HIM call 911. BONUS: link has video of granny.

Story with video at WPXI.

The sad news that I just received is that Olive, the world’s oldest blogger, has passed away at the age of 108. Mike Rubbo, a documentary filmmaker, started last year to document some of Olive’s stories of her life, as well as posting current video of her telling stories, singing, or just talking to Mike and others. Even though she lived on the other side of the planet from me, her stories from another time, along her obvious joy for living, touched me in a quite unexpected way.

May God comfort Olive’s family and friends at this time of loss. And thanks, Mike, for allowing all of us to share in her life. The link to her blog (or her blob, as she called it) is on the right sidebar, but has been having problems for unknown reasons. A temporary blog was established recently when someone else had to post in Mike’s stead, and can be reached here: World’s Oldest Blogger.

Yep…this has GOT to be an official sign of the apocalypse. According to a feed from imdb.com, Paris Hilton is interested in making a reality show starring herself, Britney Spears, and Lindsay Lohan.

If my tivo records this as recommended viewing…I will throw it out the window.

This year, the National Weather Service decided to change the starting day of what we call “The Monsoon Season” here in Arizona. The old standard stated that when we had three consecutive days that had dew points of 55° or greater, the monsoon was on. The new standard just said June 15 is the start.

It doesn’t matter. It’s monsoon season, kids.

For those new to the valley, or you just have the good sense not to live here…I’ll cut through all the hype that has stricken all of the TV weather people.

  1. It’s not just hot, it’s humid. 105° feels different today than 105° did a few weeks ago.
  2. Dust storms. They move fast. Really fast. If you see one, get inside NOW. Visibility for drivers gets severely handicapped, and all that dust makes some activities difficult…like breathing.
  3. Severe thunderstorms. Watch the forecast and bring an umbrella. That sunny day at 7:00am can be raining cats and dogs at 5:00pm when you get out of work.

Well, that’s all I got to say about that.